My mom has a theory that he's blowing me off so that he doesn't have to deal with Christmas. She thinks he'll come back swinging around the second week of January. I wouldn't be surprised if she's right.

And yeah, totally. I think at this point, if I should talk to him again, I'm just going to have to say, "If you want to date me, or even be my friend, you have to make an effort. Like, more than once a month. Because this doesn't work for me AT ALL."